Don't screw around with your friends ex. if you've done Crack...

[human]

E-mail I came across...

DUMB FUCK>>101..........One fucking rule is you don't. Go Out a with a
friends Exwife especially if you happend to be one of his oldest
friends. INSANITY is making the same Major mistake over and over
again. (sort of like smoking crack)

First major fuck up Scenario 1. One MR T. C. VS D.
J. They are friends of over 20 years , His ex wife and mother of
his two kids is missing from home and work for a few days Come to find
out she is on a crack bing with MR T. C. for like aweek. You
would of thought MR T. C. would of thought ahead and even if not
for some moral obligation to his friend but at least for self
preservation since D. is one of the toughest meanest mofos we
know. BUT I guess his thinking cap was replaced by a weeklong binge
of momentary insanity o h yeah HE had to get somebody to pay for the
crack.any how D. finally caught up with MR T. C. , After
the binge instead of scurrying back to his own house guess he didnt
want to catch up to his own wife he ends up at D. old house
with the ex, passed the fuck out, D. proceeds to beat the shit
out of him with some Lumber . We talk D. out of trying to kill
T. C., telling him nobody is going to win if T. is dead and he is in
jail. Not him his kids T. or T's kids. I talk to T. soon
afterwards to find out what the hell he was thinking and instead of
some remorse He tells me he wants to file charges because D. broke his
leg...Are you kidding me ,You the Victim what the hell did you expect!

Casualties of the Aftermath.
Now D. kids are blaming T. for Really putting a division
between the parents alot of hurt and emotional suffering is going down
inboth households .

Dumb Fuck MOVE 102
T. T. and T. C. have been friends since they were in
elementary school living in Tara Hill. SHIT. T. C. was one of my
groomsman in my wedding, His son J. was the Ring bearer. While
T. is at another one of his deadend JOBS he asked me if i could help
him get a job into the record industry, I was Just getting a a new
executive Job at MCA Running the Hip HOP Promotions Dept. So what does
a good friend do I lie to my new EMPLOYERS and tell them I want T.
who is an expeirenced COLLEGE RADIO PROMOTER, SALARY AND BENEFITS, HE
does not need to do all the shit I had to do intern FOR A YEAR FOR FREE
GET PAYED NOTHING FOR TWO YEARS TO GET EXPERIENCE AND RELATIONSHIPS
NONE OF THAT. I COVER HIM FOR HIM SO HE CAN LEARN the trade and I
cover him when he goes missing from work for a week for unkown reasons, no calling in just cant find him he doesnt even call in for a week.
Now mind you besides the fact he could get automaticly fired and make
me lookreal bad. I DONT Want him to fail. when I AM LEAVING MCA < I
HAVE 1year left on my contract, I tell my boss if she gives the guys I
HIRED T. C. AND TYC A YEAR to make it in the company instead of just
firing them which usually happens in this type of situation i would
forgo them paying me my last year of my contract (I was doing
consulting for Dreamworks at the time and felt i would be ok . NOW if
you dont think this did not make things dificult at my home when my
wife cant understand why I would help my friends. Who would not be
able to make a transition as easy as myself, you can imagine.
T. C. STAYED ON and infact became Gavin RAP PROMOTIONS MAN OF THE YEAR ,
FASTFORWARD...........

THe Last TIME I SAW T. C. Was when me and my son came over to
his house on Christmas Day to see him and his family I had not talked
to him inawhile I know he had been haveing alot of problems with
addiction and was falling in and out of it with crack.he was there
with the kids and me my son stayed with him for awhile Out of all his
friends I can only imagine B. coming by and checking in on him,
R. Is out of town, Me, R. and T. C. have been the closest of friends
since 6th grade thru ups and down highs and lows we always will be
close, nomatter what, thats just the way is. WE do good ,WE FUCK
UP (maybe not R.) but we all ways are here. My ex had the nerve to
say me and T. C. are not good friends i think to justify her actions SO
what happens next is really a heartbreaker.

I am talking to my son and he told me the next time we go to
the movies or KNOTTS BERRY FARM i am coming and I should tell my
friend T. C. to stop coming by . He does not undrstand why he can come
by without the kids or me. Because T. C. is MY friend. And why he
would be at the house late at night while he is sleeping I ask how do
you n-know that and he proceedst to tellme , As MY ANGER HITS A
LEVEL OF I CANT EXPLAIN BECAUSE WHEN IT COMES To MY BABY BOY GOING THRU
ANY THING IN THE SLIGHTEST UNCOMFORTABLE. I AMREALIZING THAT THE WAY I
FIND ONE OF MY BESTFRIENDS IS SEEING MY EXWIFE IS BECAUSE MY SON KNOWS
SOMETHING IS WRONG< ARE YOU KIDING ME < IT TAKES A SIX YEAR OLD
KID TO FIGURE THIS SHIT OUT> well there you are ... Now what my
kid has to go thru the same bullshit D's kids had to go thru, I spoke to
my bro and he is convinced i had it wrong and that you would not do
that again and but alas he is wrong so much for having faith in
somebody learning from there mistakes. T. C. I don know what you were
thinking that i would not blow a fuse , maybe if you talked to me
about it, but of course you had to be a coward, and i had t find out
from my kid. I thought that you had been sober, but you must be on
crack to make this mistake again, Or INSANE. N. She does not
give a fuck Her resentent for me justifies her to do anything she can
to hurt me and at this point she does not think it could potentially
affect her son. but You What the fuck... As far as my son is
concerned I don't want to hear about you near him ever, because all
will cause is him to be very uncomfortable and hurt. if you dont give
a fuck about him. I will do everything in my power to make your life
miserable if you think I threw you under the bus with this email, I
will verify and and publish every little sordid crack infused detail
of your life for the whole world to see. And Also dont let my name
come out your mouth, if you so much as sneeze details about me to your
little new play thing you are done. N. DOES NOT KNOW ALL YOUR SHIT
AND I WILL NOT PUT THAT OUT THERE I HAVE SOME OBLIGATIONS TO FRIENDSHIP
PAST AND PRESENT. My Son already knows it causes me and N. are
ahfd that you are hanging out and it affects him YOU GOT IT......
And if you have the nerve to say we dont see each other that much so
we are not good friend s anymore, To justify your consistent stupid
behavior, I know that R., R.,B. B., R., K., B.,
L., G., K. W., K., D.F., D. S.,C. S. would ever
consider doing such a stupid thing hell NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.

Get It straight bro you dont go out with your good friends ex wife, it
is bad for everybody especially if they have kids you dumb fuck. ask
your mom, your dad, your grandparents, self help forums,your ex wife,
any therapist, Do alittle research on the net it will be af
overwhelming hell NO. But if it you are just stupid, insane or on
crack i guess i should understand.

T. C., MAYBE THERE IS A REASON BIG PILES OF SHIT KEEP FALLING FROM THE
SAY ALL AROUND YOU.

T. C. I don't consider you some big crackhead I know you are going
thru the bouts of addiction i am just very angry

Once again stay the hellaway from my son..........................

And to everybody I know who read this email if I have got this wrong
someway somehow Explain it to Me so I can fully understand why its
cool to date your bestfriends exwife or just give me your thoughts or
advice on this little sordid ordeal.. I probably need it.
Look at T. C. and his relationship drama and his kids and what they
have had to deal with, There are so many situations i cant even go
over them, I could never imagine my son having to deal with those
potential problems no fucking way. And here we go i am being pulled
into this motherfuckers drama because you guys dont have the presence
of mind to see this shit is wrong. give me a break, are you telling
you can't see nothing wrong with this is ridiculous. Are you that
blind and stubborn.

And if you dont think there is anything wrong with this here is a
quote from one of the most preiminent psychologist on family
relations.DR PHIL

1.Although it may be emotionally painful, make sure that you and your
ex keep each other informed about changes in your life circumstances
so that the child is never, ever the primary source of information.
9.If at all possible try to keep your new love life as far removed
from you ex as possible. The further they are from the situation the
more they will be able to accept and deal with it in a healthy
fashion. Date outside of your old social circles. And never under any
conditions date friends of your ex especially if you have children,
these situation are too emotionally charged and hit too close to home.
Nothing good comes from them, Anger, Hate Shame in social
circumstances. The couple can develop a siege mentality of us against
them which is very powerful and unhealthy. This takes away from the
real reasons to be in a healthy relationship and usually make a couple
stay in a relationship longer just to prove that everybody is wrong
even though the relationship was doomed from the start. Do not let
your Ego make life difficult for your self and especially your child.

And you have the nerve to tell me you guys are very mature give me a
break. DO you live in a vacuum with your head in the sand.n and if you
tell me your friends think it is cool tell me who and what planet they
are living in.

[oldmilwaukee6er]

solid advice. 

O.M.'s not got to get wit crack and don nobody knows if big piles of keep falling from the say gots things to do wit his ex.

[50Cent #II (1st print)]

Yeah, I liked the reference to getting his leg broken by some lumber the previous time, myself...

[Sir Real]

O.M.'s not got to get wit crack and don nobody knows if big piles of keep falling from the say gots things to do wit his ex.

Yeah, what you said!